Oh Those Silly Boys!

So as you might be able to tell by the title, this post is gonna be all about boys. Liking them, dating them and yes...marrying them. Now I have never actually been in a relationship before (pretty proud of that for the most part) but I have had my fair share of crushes. Sadly to say, at most points in my life from about age 13-now, there has been some boy on my mind. Now I say sadly because I don't really need to be focused on finding "Mr. Perfect". God (hopefully) already has him picked out for me. I do need to keep my eyes open though. I don't want to hate on every guy that comes my way. It's really good to have friends that are guys. One of my BEST friends is a guy. I tell him everything and I have been really blessed by God to have a friend like him in my life. But it's when we obsess over a guy, or just get really attached that we run into problems. I, myself I have just had this happen to me just the other week. I really liked a guy from school who treated my super well and who I thought (after getting to know him for a while) that he was a lot of what I wanted in my "Mr. Perfect". I got very attached and tried to take matters in my own hands. I tried to get him to like me and want to date me. But why did I if God already has someone in mind? I shouldn't have to try. Plus, something I heard from a book I read called Crushed by Jesse Minassian ( gotta read it!) a girl should let the guy pursue her. Not the other way around. You are worth so much and a guy should have to prove that he is worth your time and eventually your promise as a wife...FOR LIFE! (I will talk about marriage more tomorrow). Anyways, when I finally realized that I was annoying this guy and that he didn't like me like that, my heart was broken. I let my emotions go too far and got hurt and that was my own fault. Ladies, PLEASE be careful when you start to like a guy. Don't get too emotionally involved and get your heart broken like I did. You're worth more than that! Be patient and God will have your "Mr. Perfect" come at the most perfect moment when you're probably not even suspecting it! <3
Blessings to all, Melody :)